Embracing our gifts as autistic people

Growing up undiagnosed with autism, I often felt like I was leading two lives. One where I struggled to fit in and understand social cues, while everyone else seemed to effortlessly navigate social situations. It was a constant battle for me.

To cope, I would hide my true self behind a mask, trying my best to blend in with those around me. But no matter how hard I tried, I always felt like an outsider looking in.

This led me to develop hyperindependence as a defense mechanism. I pushed people away, fearing that if they got too close, they would discover the real me - someone who was too "sensitive" too "weird, someonewho would never fit in within our society.

Little did I know, this self-imposed isolation was preventing me from forming genuine connections and finding the support I desperately needed.

It wasn't until I finally discovered I was autistic that everything started to change. It was like a switch had been flipped, illuminating a path that had always been there but was hidden from view.

Suddenly, all the puzzle pieces of my life began to fall into place. I realized that being autistic wasn't something to be ashamed of; it was an integral part of my identity that should be embraced and celebrated.

With this newfound understanding, I embarked on a journey of self-acceptance and self-discovery. And now, as a therapist specializing in working with autistic adults, I have the privilege of guiding others on their own paths towards understanding and acceptance.

The individuals I work with are truly remarkable. They possess incredible talents and abilities, yet like me, they once struggled to recognize their own worth.

It's both humbling and empowering to witness their growth and know that I've played a small role in helping them realize their potential. But it also saddens me to think about all the autistic individuals who are still suffering in silence without access to the support they need.

That's why I'm sharing my story now - to raise awareness about the importance of early diagnosis and support for autistic individuals.

No one should have to go through life feeling like they don't belong or are somehow inferior because their brains are wired differently. We must embrace neurodiversity and value the unique strengths that each person brings.

If you're reading this and suspect that you or someone you love may be autistic, I urge you to take action. Don't wait another day to seek help and understanding.

You have incredible potential within you, and there are people who genuinely want to assist you in realizing it. Believe in yourself, aim high, and never settle for anything less than what you deserve.